A brief gander around.

When you get to know someone all their physical characteristics start to disappear. You begin to dwell in their energy. You see only the essence of the person. Not the shell. Thats why you cant fall in love with beauty or looks , you can only lust after it , be infatuated by it , want to own it. You can love with your eyes and body not your heart. Thats why when you really connect with a person any physical imperfections disappear , becomes irrelevant. -And you? You need to grasp this. It'll do you good.